Mums want a sex drive!

Mum's don't have time for lame sex. It's time for your sensual revival.

I’m so excited you found me! It’s my honour to help mothers and new parents reconnect with themselves and each other after welcoming a baby. 

My name is Vanessa Tarfon and I am a qualified Sex Therapist, with a Masters in HIV, STIs and Sexual Health from the University of Sydney.

I’m a mama to two beautiful, energetic little boys living in a busy household with sleep deprivation like I have never experienced before! After having children my self-care time vanished and I reached a point where I realised this couldn’t continue…I needed myself back because I still have so much life to live! I understand the struggles women face with their sensuality, particularly after life-changing events.

I kickstarted bringing my inner-self and sensuality back to life and in the process discovered many mamas walking around so deep in “mum life” they don’t know themselves anymore. So, after working in the corporate world for several years…I listened and acted to establish Authentic Awareness.

I am passionate about making sex therapy and education accessible to all mothers and parents with a variety of different schedules.

Many women don’t understand their own bodies to recognise their pleasure, let alone have the vocabulary to communicate their uncensored needs and desires. Bearing busy women in mind, I want to give women, like you, the tools and skills to ignite their saucy sensuality.

Open yourself up to sensuality and connection and welcome confidence, good health and energy into your home. 

Vanessa x

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My commitment is to...

I am committed to empowering mums to accept and express their tantalising sexual self-image.

I am committed to educating mums on their untapped potential by revealing a deeper connection to their true self and partner.

I am committed to breaking incorrect perceptions of sexual health and bringing female pleasure into everyday discussions.