Spice Up the Bedroom This Christmas: The Best Stocking Fillers for Every Woman
Vanessa Tarfon
1 Dec 2024 – 3 min read
Let’s talk stockings – every woman deserves one that’s not only exciting but also packed with goodies to make your festive season sizzle! Whether you’re looking to add a spark, deepen intimacy, or try something new, these gifts can make the holidays, and beyond, much spicier.
Ohnut – Perfect for Comfort-Enhanced Pleasure
Ever feel that extra sensitivity during deeper moments? Ohnut’s a dream for anyone needing a buffer to ease discomfort with depth, plus it’s especially beneficial if you use a pessary. You and your partner can focus on fun without worrying about feeling the pessary, making intimacy more comfortable and enjoyable.
Sway Vibrator – Ergonomics Meets Versatility
Not your typical vibrator, the Sway’s ergonomic design makes it perfect for navigating all kinds of stimulation zones (front and back, inside and out)! With its sleek feel and easy handling for any age, you’re in control wherever you want that extra touch.
Dame Fin Finger Vibrator – Pocket-Sized Power
Small yet mighty, the Dame Fin finger vibrator is perfect for solo use or adding an extra thrill while your partner is in motion because yes women commonly need clitoral stimulation at the same time as penetration to explode. This little wonder packs a punch, fitting neatly between your fingers for easy, precise stimulation.
Integrity Massage Candle – Aroma Meets Sensuality
Imagine a candle that transforms into warm massage oil—yes, please! Integrity Candles offer luxurious scents and textures, plus they’re made in Australia with quality ingredients. Light it, let it melt, and then use the oil for a sensual massage that leads to even more…
Sex Card Games – Ignite the Passion
If you’ve ever been curious about game-based intimacy, or feel stuck on what to try next, try a box of steamy sex cards! This “Box of Burning Desires” is a great mix of fun, daring, and intimacy, perfect for rekindling the flame or adding a spark.
Beginner Anal Play – Explore with Confidence
Curious but unsure where to start? An anal plug training kit like the Winyi Mark Ribbed Silicone set is an easy and safe introduction to anal play. The largest plug even vibrates for varied sensations! Always look for a T or X-shaped base to prevent mishaps and avoid an emergency room visit.
Lingerie – Dress to Impress (Yourself and Your Partner!)
Nothing says confidence like stunning lingerie. Brands like Playful Promises, Bluebella and Intimo offer styles for every body type, blending comfort with a touch of luxury. When you feel amazing in what you wear, that confidence translates straight to the bedroom.
Sex Pillow or Wedge – Boost Comfort and Exploration
Comfort is key to enjoyment! A pillow or wedge designed for intimacy, like the Liberator Jaz, can make new positions easier and more comfortable. Perfect for an evening of experimental fun without the discomfort at any age.
Radiant You: Sensual Reset Membership – Your Path to Sensual Control
This transformative journey is all about reclaiming your sensuality, reconnecting with yourself, and truly getting what you desire. Designed for every woman ready to ignite her passion, this membership gives you the tools to awaken your sensual potential.
Bonus Guide for Your Partner: Unleash Her Ecstasy
If you want your partner to join you on this journey, consider gifting them Unleash Her Ecstasy – a guide to mastering your pleasure! This practical and insightful guide will help your partner understand your desires on a whole new level.
Books – From Mild to Wild in the Spice Department
Erotica isn’t just for fun; it can inspire and empower. Giving you the confidence to communicate your desires and stimulating your body’s arousal response. Here’s a rundown of sultry reads for every taste:
- Shantel Tessier’s Dark Kingdom Series: Shantel is a smut queen. For smut-level spice, start with Titan and let the fireworks begin. After this series head over to her Lord Series. Equally smutty and these 2 series start to intertwine in the last 2 Lord books.
- Elodie Hart’s Alchemy Series: All spice but if you’re looking for an older leading couple, Unveil is a mature take on steamy romance, featuring a mid-30s heroine and an early-50s hero.
- Sadie Kincaid’s Chicago Ruthless and Manhattan Ruthless Series: Expect passionate, intense characters that make for unputdownable reads. All Sadie’s books are well-written and worth reading.
- Jodi Ellen Malpas’s Unlawful Men Series: Get ready for morally grey characters, hot scenes and forbidden attraction starting with The Brit.
- W S Greer’s Novels: The man knows how to write! Written with vivid details, these books may challenge, excite, or both, depending on your taste. Start with Kingdom to see if his dark shade of romance tickles your senses.
- T L Swan’s Works: Romance and spice with witty banter – guaranteed laughs and maybe a tear or two. Try The Stopover, The Bonus or My Temptation.
- S.J. Tilly: Not only are her books romantic with a great level of spice thrown in but she loves to write a strong heroine that is more sexy curves than stick insect which makes her stories relatable and exciting. Have a look at the Alliance series.
This Christmas, celebrate yourself and explore a new level of intimacy! Add some of these goodies to your wishlist and get ready for a holiday season that’s bound to be memorable, both in and out of the bedroom!
Vanessa Tarfon
Sex Therapist, owner of Authentic Awareness
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