Sexual Barriers Quiz

80% of new mums have no interest in sex.

Interest in sex after birth can be challenging (just read the Mama’s Sex Survey results) but it doesn’t need to be!
You can reconnect with yourself and your partner and find your zest for life.

Mums have 3 MAIN barriers to sex. Take this quick 5 question quiz to discover what’s stopping you today!

When it comes to sex I...

woman lying on her side on bed covering her face wishing for more connection and intimacy after sex

Always have clothes on.

Am passive participant, thinking about the list of chores I have to do so let's not prolong it more than necessary.

Tense up, anxiety takes over, the mood is ruined which is a problem but I'm also thankful that situation is over.

Can't get enough! I love to initiate and create the scene.

When I look at other mums at school/daycare pickup I wonder…

Padlocks on a fence, resentment affecting sex after kids, relationship issues.

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How she get's her body like that.

She must have a great sex life.

I bet she doesn't get anxious and dread when her partner is coming towards her.

She's got nothing on me, I wonder if she experienced what I did last night!

When my partner mentions they have booked a hotel for us I would..

man and woman standing in the middle of a street boost intimacy by kissing. The man is holding an umbrella and there are cars and buildings behind the couple.

Packed in the car with my "sexy clothes" within 5 mins.

Think it's a great idea but I need to run to the shops first and grab some new clothes because nothing fits and I want it to be perfect.

Think YES I can't wait to go and just chill with movies and room service in my PJs.

Immediately say all the reasons I can't go, it's not a good time, I should have been asked before making a booking.

During sex I…

figurines lying down hugging each other under net blanket demonstrating a position after sex after birth

Have anxiety enducing memories/thoughts and I can't get rid of them.

Try to focus and be present but my mind is constantly invaded by all the chores and things I have to do.

Totally present and into it there's nothing getting in my way.

Busy thinking about which positions I should be to get my good sides only.

If my kids walked in on me having sex I would immediately…

Cover my body - no one wants to see that.

Keep going and make them leave.

Freeze and then get dressed in silence.

Freeze and breathe a sign of relief sex is over.

What is your main barrier to sex?

Low Sexual Desire

Sexual Self Image

Sexual Communication

Alternate Barrier