The 12 Days of Pleasure: A Holiday Guide to Feeling Closer (Without More Effort)

Authentic Awareness > Articles by: Vanessa Tarfon

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Dec

Gentle daily intimacy practices for men and women over 40 to boost low libido, deepen connection, and feel closer without pressure or effort.

Posted in: Desire , Intimacy , Relationship , Sensual Self ,

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Squirting: What It Is, Who Can Do It & How to Try It

Nov

Curious about squirting? Learn what it is, who can squirt, how to try it, and why it’s perfectly normal if it never happens for you.

Posted in: Self Pleasure , Sensual Self , Sex ,

Tags: long-term relationships , pleasure techniques , relationship satisfaction , sex and ageing , sexual arousal , sexual desire , sexual pleasure , sexuality ,

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Why Sex Feels Like a Chore for So Many Women: And What It Does to Relationships

Oct

Many women secretly feel that sex is a chore and it’s harming intimacy, desire, and connection. Discover how to rewrite the story for more pleasure and honesty.

Posted in: Desire , Intimacy , Relationship , Sex ,

Tags: intimacy issues , long-term relationships , relationship problems , relationship satisfaction , sex and ageing , sexless relationship , sexual communication , sexual desire , sexual pleasure , sexuality ,

Three Ways to Naturally Boost your Libido

Sep

It’s natural for your libido to ebb and flow but how can you take a more natural approach to boosting it? Here are three ideas.

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Tags: libido , sex and ageing , sexless relationship , sexual communication , sexual desire , sexual pleasure , sexuality ,

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ENM Relationships: Why I Say No (At First) to People Wanting to Open Their Relationship

Aug

Why and when to open your relationship. How to explore ethical non-monogamy (ENM) with clarity, honesty, and sexual wellbeing.

Posted in: Intimacy , Relationship , Sex ,

Tags: enm relationship , long-term relationships , open relationship , polyamory , relationship problems , relationship satisfaction , sex and ageing , sexless relationship , sexual communication , sexual desire , sexual pleasure , sexuality ,

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Desire Discrepancy in Midlife Relationships: What’s the Problem and What’s the Fix?

Jul

Your libido doesn’t match your partner’s. Learn the real reasons behind desire gaps and how to reconnect emotionally and sexually.

Posted in: Desire , Intimacy , menopause , Relationship , Sex ,

Tags: long-term relationships , menopause , orgasm issues , painful sex , perimenopause , relationship problems , relationship satisfaction , sex and ageing , sexless relationship , sexual communication , sexual desire , sexual pleasure , sexuality ,

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Can’t Orgasm During Perimenopause or Menopause? Why and What Actually Helps

Jun

Struggling to reach orgasm during perimenopause or menopause? You’re not broken. Learn why pleasure can feel out of reach and how to reconnect with your sensuality step by step.