Top 5 Sex Positions for Maximum Pleasure: Ultimate Guide for Men and Women
Vanessa Tarfon
1 Aug 2024 – 3 min read
What makes sex utterly irresistible? The answer is unique for everyone, but it often falls into one of these four tantalising categories:
- Emotional Connection: The deep, lingering bond felt during and after sex.
- Power and control: The electrifying thrill and comforting security when a partner takes the lead.
- Sensory Overload: The breathtaking sensations that ripple through the entire body.
- Feeling Desired: The seductive anticipation built through teasing and flirting, making you feel utterly irresistible before, during and after sex.
When Sex Positions Go Wrong
Sex positions and scenarios can go from steamy to stressful when communication breaks down. Anxiety, discomfort, or even injury can sneak in. But fear not! Keeping an open dialogue with your partner ensures both of you stay in the pleasure zone.
Did you know that doggy style is the riskiest position for men, responsible for 41% of penile fractures? The man on top position followed closely behind. As with everything medical research, research on positions causing the most injuries for women is lacking, however, surveys suggest that doggy and man-on-top are often the culprits for discomfort.
The Top 5 Sex Positions for Mind-Blowing Female Pleasure
Expert Tip: Clitoral stimulation during intercourse can skyrocket the chances of orgasm. Use a toy or your fingers for that extra spark.
Face-to-Face Woman-on-Top
She commands the depth and rhythm, making it perfect for simultaneous clitoral stimulation.
Missionary with a Pillow/Rolled-up Towel Under the Buttocks
‘This position enhances intimacy, with communication, deep eye contact and passionate kissing, along with more direct G-spot stimulation.
Face-to-Face Sitting Woman-on-Top
Full control of depth and movement, plus an emotional connection that’s off the charts thanks to manual and oral options.
Lying Dog
A gentle twist on doggy style that prevents painful back arching, keeping the pleasure rolling without hitting any uncomfortable spots like the cervix or ovaries.
Woman-on-Bottom with No Penetration
Imagine a symphony of kisses, sucks, and touches, where manual and oral full-body and genital stimulation takes her to the peak of ecstasy.
The Top 5 Sex Positions for Explosive Male Pleasure
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The ultimate in mutual pleasure, where giving and receiving happen in perfect harmony electrifying his pleasure. Note: it’s not as pleasurable for women, but she’ll still enjoy herself.
Fellatio Female Above
Pure relaxation with an unbeatable view when his head is propped on a pillow.
Kneeling Rear Entry (Doggy Style)
Men love the view, with the added thrill of access to their partner’s rear for extra playful touches. You can also change the sensation slightly by either having your knees outside your partner’s, making their thighs squeeze together tighter, or have your knees on the inside, which allows theirs to drop open, giving you more depth.
Supine Female Above (Reverse Cowgirl)
Deep, intense, and perfect for caressing, allowing the man to lay back and enjoy.
Face-to-Face Man-on-Top
Masterful control of depth and movement, enriched by intimate communication and sensual touches. Knowing your partner is feeling pleasure heightens your own pleasure.
Sex is an exhilarating dance of giving and receiving pleasure. It’s not just physical; it’s a journey of discovery, intimacy, and connection at any age. For more sizzling tips, contact me today. And men, if you’re ready to become a master of female pleasure, grab your guide to Unleash Her Ecstasy and watch your shared delight reach new heights.
Vanessa Tarfon
Sex Therapist, owner of Authentic Awareness
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